on your strengths, because what you are good at is your gift to the world.

What Are You Good At? Celebrate Your Superpowers With Enthusiasm! 😃

Have you ever had someone ask you, “So, what are you good at?” For some, the answer leaps out like a confetti cannon—“I’m great at drawing!” “I can solve math problems in my sleep!” “I make the fluffiest pancakes this side of the Mississippi!” For others, that question can feel like staring into a foggy mirror, searching for something clear to reflect back. No matter which camp you fall into, let’s take a humanized, enthusiastic journey to explore what it means to be good at something, how to find your own superpowers, and—most importantly—why you should celebrate them!

The Myth of “Talent”—We’re All Good at Something!

First things first: let’s bust a myth. Being “good at” something isn’t just about being the best, winning awards, or being able to do backflips while solving a Rubik’s Cube (although if you can do that, major kudos!). It’s about what lights you up, what comes naturally after some practice, or what brings you a sense of satisfaction and pride.

Maybe you’re the friend who always knows what to say when someone’s down. Maybe you’re the person who can organize chaos into order with a few sticky notes and a color-coded spreadsheet. Or perhaps you have a knack for remembering everyone’s birthday, baking mouthwatering cookies, or listening deeply without judgment. These are all incredible things to be good at!

Why Is It Hard to Answer “What Are You Good At?”

If you struggle to answer this question, you’re not alone. Sometimes we:

Compare ourselves to others and feel like our skills are less impressive.
Take our strengths for granted—what’s easy for us might be tough for others!
Haven’t had the chance to discover or develop our talents yet.
Worry about sounding braggy (psst: celebrating yourself isn’t bragging, it’s self-love!).

But here’s the enthusiastic truth: everyone has unique abilities, perspectives, and gifts. The world needs your flavor of awesome!

How to Discover What You’re Good At

Let’s make this fun—grab a notebook or open a notes app and let’s play detective!

1. Look for Your “Flow” Moments

Think of a time when you lost track of time because you were so into what you were doing. Were you:

Writing stories?
Fixing a gadget?
Helping a friend with homework?
Teaching someone to dance?
Sketching, coding, gardening, or gaming?

“Flow” is a clue! It’s that state when you’re fully immersed and enjoying yourself. Often, these are the things we’re naturally drawn to and, with practice, become really good at.

2. Notice What People Compliment You On

Sometimes, our friends, family, or colleagues notice our strengths before we do. Do you often hear:

“You have such a calming presence.”
“How did you make this so organized?”
“Your jokes always make my day.”
“I wish I could paint like you.”

Instead of brushing these off, jot them down. These are hints to what you’re good at!

3. Reflect on What Feels Effortless (to You)

We tend to undervalue things that come easily to us. But just because it feels effortless doesn’t mean it isn’t special! If you:

Can whip up a meal with whatever’s in the fridge,
Always find the perfect playlist for every occasion,
Or are the go-to person for solving tricky puzzles,

That’s a superpower!

4. Ask Others

If you’re feeling brave (and I encourage you to be!), ask people you trust: “What do you think I’m good at?” Their answers may surprise and delight you.

5. Try New Things

Sometimes, we haven’t discovered our hidden abilities yet. Don’t be afraid to try new hobbies, classes, or activities. You might stumble upon something you love and excel at—who knows, maybe you’re a world-class salsa dancer waiting to be discovered!

My Humanized, Enthusiastic Take: Why It Matters

Knowing what you’re good at isn’t about ego—it’s about empowerment. When we recognize and honor our abilities, we:

Build self-confidence.
Find joy and meaning in our daily lives.
Contribute authentically to our communities, families, and workplaces.
Inspire others to celebrate their own strengths.

Imagine a world where everyone was encouraged to shine in their own way—what a dazzling, creative, and supportive place that would be!

It’s Okay to Be a Work in Progress

Here’s the thing: you don’t have to have it all figured out. Your skills and passions will grow and change throughout your life. What you’re good at today might look different in five or ten years—and that’s wonderful! Keep exploring, learning, and evolving.

Let’s Celebrate Some Unsung Superpowers

Let’s give a standing ovation to these underrated but amazing strengths:

Empathy: Being able to sense how others feel and offer support.
Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks with grit and humor.
Curiosity: Always asking questions and wanting to learn more.
Patience: Taking time with people, projects, or pets.
Reliability: Being the person others can always count on.
Creativity: Seeing possibilities everywhere—even in problems!

If you see yourself in any of these, give yourself a high-five. The world needs more of this magic!

How to Share Your Gifts

Once you know what you’re good at, don’t keep it to yourself! Share your skills with the world:

Volunteer to help others.
Teach someone what you know.
Start a blog, TikTok, YouTube channel, or podcast.
Join clubs or communities that celebrate your passion.
Simply be yourself—your strengths will shine through.

Final Pep Talk: You Are Amazing!

Next time someone asks, “What are you good at?” take a deep breath, smile, and let your superpowers shine! Whether it’s making people laugh, organizing chaos, building things, or showing kindness, your unique abilities make a difference.

So go ahead—celebrate yourself with enthusiasm! The world is brighter with your gifts in it. And if you’re still discovering what you’re good at, enjoy the journey. The adventure is half the fun!

Stay enthusiastic, stay human, and keep shining. You’re awesome! 😃✨

Have a story about discovering your own strengths? Share it in the comments! Let’s lift each other up and celebrate the amazing things we’re all good at!